Mentor matching questionnaire for mentees and mentors
Fourteen questions a mentee answers before pairing, with the mentor's parallel form to copy. About five minutes.
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The 14 mentor matching questions
A mentor matching questionnaire is an intake form that mentees and mentors fill in before anybody is paired. These 14 questions collect a mentee's goals, preferences, availability and conflicts, and the mentor answers the same questions from the other side. To add your program name, open the form in the online questionnaire maker.
About you (2 questions)
A match needs a name and a team.
- Your name, as the program coordinator will know it.
- Your job title and team.Shows reporting lines and functions at a glance.
Goals (3 questions)
What the mentee wants, set against what a mentor can offer.
- What do you most want a mentor to help you with in the next six months?The first field to match on.
- Which topics would you want to cover? Tick up to three.Look for at least one topic the mentor also ticked.
- Describe one situation in the last three months where a mentor would have helped.Separates two mentees who ticked the same boxes.
Preferences (3 questions)
Tie-breakers, applied after the goals line up.
- Would you prefer a mentor from your own function or from a different one?
- How much more experience should your mentor have?
- Which mentoring style suits you best?
Availability (3 questions)
A pair has to be able to meet, so check these first.
- How often could you meet?Plan on the less frequent of the two answers.
- How would you prefer to meet?
- Which time zone and working hours are you usually in?Check the overlap in working hours.
Conflicts (1 question)
Optional, and seen by the coordinator only.
- Is there anyone you should not be matched with, such as your manager or someone in your reporting line?
In your words, then commitment (2 questions)
One open answer, then the rating that decides who is paired now.
- Anything else the coordinator should know before making your match?
- How ready are you to meet regularly for the length of the program?An "Unsure" answer calls for a conversation before a match.
The mentor-mentee matching form, mentor side
The same fourteen questions from the mentor's side, plus one on capacity. Send it as its own survey.
Mentor form: 15 questions
1. Your name, as the program coordinator will know it. [Short text] 2. Your job title and team. [Short text] 3. Which of these could you help a mentee with? Tick all that apply. [Tick all: Doing their current role better / Preparing for a next role / Moving into a different function / Building one specific skill / Leading people for the first time / Finding their way around the organization] 4. Which topics are you comfortable mentoring on? Tick all that apply. [Tick all: Career planning / Technical skills / Managing people / Communication and influence / Handling a difficult situation / Balancing work and life / Working across teams] 5. Describe one situation where your experience helped someone less experienced. [Long text] 6. Would you mentor someone from your own function, a different one, or either? [Pick one: My own function / A different function / Either] 7. Which levels would you be comfortable mentoring? [Tick all: One level below me / Two or more levels below / A peer with different experience] 8. Which mentoring style comes most naturally to you? [Pick one: Direct advice on what to do / Questions that help them work it out / A mix of both / Not sure yet] 9. How often could you meet? [Pick one: Every week / Every two weeks / Once a month / Less than once a month] 10. How would you prefer to meet? [Pick one: In person / Video call / Either] 11. Which time zone and working hours are you usually in? [Short text] 12. Is there anyone you should not be matched with, such as someone who reports to you? [Short text, optional] 13. Anything else the coordinator should know before making your match? [Long text, optional] 14. How ready are you to meet regularly for the length of the program? [Pick one: Fully ready / Mostly ready / Unsure / Not ready yet] 15. How many mentees could you take on this cycle? [Pick one: One / Two / Three or more]
How to use the mentorship pairing questionnaire
Send the mentor form first, as its own survey, so you know each mentor's capacity and topics before mentees apply. Keep both forms open for about a week. Names are needed to pair people, so the form is confidential, read by the coordinator only.
To match, set aside pairs with no shared working hours, a declared conflict or a direct reporting line. Pair each mentee's question 3 goal with a mentor who ticked it, then let questions 6 to 8 break ties. Offer each mentee two or three mentors to rank: in research on formal mentoring programs, input into the mentoring process was consistently related to mentorship quality.[1]
Mentor matching FAQ
What questions should you ask to match mentors and mentees?
Four kinds: goals (what the mentee wants help with and what the mentor can offer), preferences (function, experience and style), availability (frequency, format and time zone) and conflicts (anyone they should not be paired with).
How do you match mentors and mentees?
Start with the pairs that can meet and have no conflict. Match each mentee's goal to a mentor who offers it, then use preferences to choose between the pairs left.
Should mentors and mentees fill in the same form?
Send two forms with parallel questions, one per group. Each person answers for their own side, and question 3 on the mentee form lines up with question 3 on the mentor form.
Michael Hodge, survey methodology · Updated 2 October 2026 · How templates are reviewed
Sources (1)
- Allen, T. D., Eby, L. T. and Lentz, E. (2006). "Mentorship Behaviors and Mentorship Quality Associated With Formal Mentoring Programs: Closing the Gap Between Research and Practice." Journal of Applied Psychology 91(3), 567-578. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16737355
Collect what the match needs
Fourteen questions for mentees, fifteen for mentors, about five minutes each.
Use this template